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Saturday, July 18, 2020

Don’t Tolerate Toxic People, Even if They’re Your Family

Toxic People

Sometimes we find it hard to cut off the toxic people in our lives because they’re close to us or they’re our family. But even if it is so, you should never tolerate someone hurting you or making you feel bad about yourself just because they’re a family member. Even if it’s hard, it’s just something you need to do because toxic people will bring you down.

We’ve all been there, we’ve all done that and we know what you’re going through. Sometimes it’s a close friend, sometimes it’s just someone you know and sometimes it’s a member of your family, but their toxicity is just something you can’t handle anymore. They may have been around since you were born, or you may have met them later in life, whatever the case, you just know you have to find a way to get away from them.

There’s one thing you need to remember when dealing with a toxic person – you don’t owe them anything. Even if that person is your father, your mother or your sister, once you’ve become an adult, you get to choose who you spend your time with. No one can force you into staying with them or hanging out with them, if you’ve noticed they have a negative influence just cut them off. If moving away from them is the best thing for you, just do it, don’t hesitate. You need to focus on yourself and what’s best for you and sometimes it may mean cutting all ties with a close family member or friend.

Toxic People

You may think that it’s your fault or that you’re exaggerating things but trust me you’re not. Toxic people will find the kindest person, the most loving and caring person and they will just pull them apart. Sometimes they don’t even understand the toxic influence they have on other people but it’s just something they do. Just because they’re unaware of their effect, it doesn’t mean you should tolerate them any longer. You could point it out to them but if they’re unwilling to make an effort and change, there’s really not much you can do. In this case, cutting them off is your only option.

You are kind and generous, you’re beautiful and intelligent and you deserve to be treated with respect. You deserve to be treated the same way you treat others, with kindness and generosity and if someone isn’t willing to give you that, they have no place in your life. Don’t let anyone ruin your positivity and bring you down, show them that you’re in control and that you won’t let them take your power away.

Maybe you’re afraid that you’re back down or that you won’t find it in you to stand up to them but don’t be. Muster the courage and break free, let yourself grow and evolve, you’ll be surprised to learn how strong you really are. Once you conquer this one thing, you’ll feel even more powerful and you’ll be able to do move. You will become stronger, braver and more empowered, you’ll feel like you’re able to conquer the world.

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